You know you want to declutter, right? I mean that’s why you are reading this, isn’t it?
All that clutter has got you hopping mad. Or even downright miserable. And you know you will be happier without it.
BUT BUT BUT …
It just seems so daunting doesn’t it?
You’re short on time – or dog tired – and you’ve tried decluttering before and it didn’t work.
You may have even have started the Marie Kondo method everyone talks about and found it left your home in a bigger mess and never got past the first drawer.
Me too! Me too!
So what can we do, to get all that clutter out of our homes and enjoy our lives again?
Well, this is what worked for me. It’s called Just 10 Things and I love it because …
- It’s incredibly easy.
- Takes only five minutes a day.
- Does not make a big old mess
- Makes it easy to sell stuff
- And truly has been life changing. I am so much happier without a home full of clutter.
Sounds good, heh? But you’re a bit sceptical, right? I mean how on earth can it be so easy when we all find decluttering so hard?
Here’s the secret: it’s the old, old story of the tortoise and the hare …
The Tortoise & The Hare
Marie Kondo is the hare: dive in, yank loads out, make a big old mess … and stop for a nap.
You might clear five bags of stuff or even 10 or 20. Which is great, as a start but not if that’s it and we then give up exhausted because most of us have way more than 20 bags of clutter we need to lose.
Just 10 Things – on the other hand – is the slow and steady tortoise who wins the real race. He only clears a few bags the first week. But he does that every single week and by the end of the year he’s cleared 100 bags of clutter.
Effortlessly. Without breaking sweat.
Now that truly is tempting isn’t it? So let me explain how it works. Like I said, it’s easy…
1. Just 10 Things
All you do, is spend 5 minutes or so every day spotting clutter you are ready to let go.
The forgotten and unused and not-truly-loved-any-more things that have outstayed their welcome and become a burden.
Every day you just need to …
- Let go of 10 of those things
- Pop them in a charity bag, bin or recycling
- And get them out of your home each week
And that’s it. Simple.
Really? You scream in disbelief? How on earth will that clear my mountain of clutter?
Well, this very method helped me clear over 200 bags of clutter and make money selling it and it can do the same for you. I promise.
I’ll explain why it works and then share:
- The 5 golden rules
- Handy answers to your FAQs
- PLUS 100 FREE daily declutter prompts
(If you’re less bothered by the why – and that’s fine – whiz down to section 3 and get started).
2. Why Just 10 Things Works?
The secret power of just 10 things lies in some numbers and some clever psychology.
First, the numbers.
The Power Of Numbers
IF you let go of just 10 things every day you will in one year declutter 3,650 items.
Wow! That’s a lot of clutter isn’t it?
Imagine having over 3,000 fewer things in your home? That would be lots of lovely space wouldn’t it? And a lot less chaos.
But the just 10 things method does something much, much, more amazing than that. And this is where the psychology comes in: some bad psychology and some good stuff.
Bad Psychology
You see, there are enormous emotions hidden deep in all our mountains of stuff. There’s anxiety, guilt, loneliness, fear and even love. And they’re pretty powerful feelings, huh?
And stomping all over them – what most declutter methods do – doesn’t help us one jot.
Yanking a load of stuff out on the floor and demanding instant decisions about what to keep, leaves us overwhelmed and drained.
We get decision fatigue.
And that is a disaster. Because it tells our brains decluttering is a total nightmare and we should avoid it like the plague.
What we need, is some good psychology to work with our emotions and motivate us.
Good Psychology
Just 10 things is kind to our deep feelings and uses them to help us let go of stuff.
It starts with the things we are ready to let go. There are actually hundreds of them big and small hiding in plain sight in our homes.
We just let 10 go every day:
- No anxiety
- No guilt
- And no decision fatigue.
We don’t yank piles of stuff out. We don’t make a mess. And we only spend 5 minutes on it.
And the impact of this is phenomenal because from day one, a super-power feedback loop tells our brain:
- Decluttering is easy, I’ve got this!
- I’ll do some more tomorrow.
- And the next day …
… and before we know it we’ve cleared 200 bags of clutter from our homes and can breathe freely again, enjoying the calm.
Every day we let something go, we break clutter’s hold on us. We stop worrying – “oh I might need this, I’ll keep it just in case” – and are ready to pass more and more on to someone who can enjoy them more.
Does that sound good? Yeah? Fantastic.
Let’s get started with the 5 golden rules, my answers to your FAQS and then the FREE daily declutter prompts.
3. The 5 Golden Rules
OK so let’s get practical.
These are FIVE golden rules of the Just 10 Things method you need to follow:
- Stick to your time box : take 5 minutes a day, 15 minutes max and use a timer so you’re not tempted to do more even if you’re on a roll. It must be quick else you won’t stick to it day after day. This is key.
- Focus on one small area : so you don’t get overwhelmed by all the possible stuff you could let go and drift aimlessly.
- Open your eyes : to unwanted, unloved, beyond repair clutter hiding in plain sight but don’t pick everything up individually. Seriously, you don’t have time.
- Without yanking stuff out : shuffle things around a little bit to see better but do NOT make a mess. This is also key.
- Spot what you are ready to let go : some days it will be 10 things, some days 20, some days 2 but remember the amazing power of numbers and aim gently for 10.
Put stuff you are ready to let go straight into :
- A charity bag or box
- Recycling
- The trash bin
- Or if you need to sell it, snap a photo right away and post it in a local Facebook buy & sell group – it must be local
By the end of the week make sure that charity bag or recycling or trash is out of your home. If your stuff is still unsold on Facebook donate it.
So there we go, super simple rules you can stick to without putting your life on hold.
But in case you’re busting with questions check out these FAQs or head to section 5 for the FREE daily declutter prompts.
4. FAQ
I Don’t Know Where To Start?
- I disagree with Marie Kondo big time on this. There isn’t a correct order that suits everyone. We all value different things.
- Start small with low value or no value items you’re not emotionally attached to.
- The first few days it can just be your wallet or your handbag or one shelf of the fridge.
- But if you want a step by step plan use the daily prompts below.
I’m Still Clinging Onto Stuff?
- Don’t worry. Just 10 Things is about working with our emotions not battling them.
- If you keep letting a few things go daily you will find in a few weeks or months you ARE ready to let go stuff you were clinging to.
I Can’t Get To A Charity Shop
- Try and build it into your weekly routine – go every week on the way to the shops or church or swim club.
- If you can’t get out you can find local charities in the USA who will collect from you here and in the UK Against Breast Cancer do weekly collections
How Can I Tackle Big Stuff?
- Clearing a few big bits of low value clutter can really clear our head space.
- And motivate us to clear more.
- I have a big list you can work through
- But it will make us feel worse if we drag it out and have it lying around.
- So only move it enough to take pictures and get these straight on a Facebook freecycle group for FREE collection.
- I’ve cleared really random junk this way!
I Need To Make Money
- It IS easier and quicker just to donate stuff.
- However this isn’t an option for all of us.
- You can sell high value items on eBay but it will take 30 mins weekly, so start a routine.
- Alternatively, I sold lots of low value items on Facebook. My secret tip is a collection box in my porch. People pick up when they like without the hassle of agreeing a time and pop the money in my letter box.
- Post a few things daily on Facebook and it will become an easy 5 minute habit. Not everything will sell but if you’re following the Just 10 Things rules the cash will add up.
My Family Aren’t On Board
- I do agree with Marie Kondo that we should not declutter other people’s stuff.
- If you declutter a little daily, your whole family benefit. Less stuff gets lost, cleaning is easier and – the biggie – everyone feels less crazy angry and anxious.
- And seeing the benefits, it’s easy to join in.
- If you do have real hoarders I recommend reading Swedish Death Cleaning. The author, Margareta Magnusson, taps into powerful instincts to help us stop clinging.
I Want Results Fast
- OK so some of us are natural hares. I have crazy bursts of hare like energy when I want everything gone NOW!!!
- I learned the hard way; it makes a BIG mess.
- So when I’m buzzing, I do a power purge. It’s mess free and tops up Just 10 Things.
My Problem Is My Basement
- You are NOT alone.
- Lots of us have basements, garages and attics piled high with forgotten stuff.
- But we must start small and get the Just 10 Things habit before tackling the monsters.
- Stick to the daily declutter for 6 weeks then use this guide to tackle boxes and this guide to tackle the other clutter.
I’m Grieving And Can’t Let Go
- Many of us cling onto stuff when grieving.
- But we can find we cling onto everything not just loved one’s mementos.
- We’re scared to let go of anything.
- Letting go of a few things daily – old fliers, broken pens, expired food – eases that general anxiety and fear.
- And helps us gently build up to letting go of mementos that don’t bring us happiness.
- Weaving active memories also helps.
OK so hopefully these FAQs will help you make Just 10 Things work for you, in your home.
But for more hands on support I’ve got 100 FREE daily declutter prompts for you.
5. 100 Daily Prompts
First, do you remember our second golden rule? It was: focus on one small area daily.
This is super important because once we open our eyes to our clutter in plain sight it IS everywhere. And it makes our head spin.
We flit from pile to pile and get nowhere. And this tells our brain we stink at decluttering. So we avoid it like the plague. Again.
The prompts are blinkers that help us sing “La la la, I can’t see you” to the rest of our clutter.
Putting On Our Blinkers
Each prompt focuses on one tiny area of clutter. And includes 10 items to look out for.
Now, you will NOT have all of them. Some will sound downright crazy. But that’s the point. We all have piles of crazy unused stuff.
As we look at the list and think “What crazy person has that?” we notice the bonkers thing in the box we haven’t opened in 5 years.
And let it go.
And by focusing small, they nudge us to declutter deeply in each little area. So after 100 days you will have freed up space all over your home, and will see easily where to focus next.
This is the full list of daily declutter prompts.
You don’t have to sign up to access them. They are FREE.
OK enough talking. Let’s get started!
6. Start Now
Just pick a prompt and follow the golden rules:
- Stick to your time box : 5 mins or 15 max
- Focus on one small area
- Open your eyes
- Without yanking stuff out
- Spot what you are ready to let go
Today, it will be just 10 things but every single thing you let go tells your brain: “I’ve got this. I CAN let go” and tomorrow it will be 10 more and the day after, another 10 and before you know it, you will have a clutter free home …
I really do hope the just 10 things declutter method helps you as much as it has me. For more support check out my FREE step-by-step declutter guide. I would to love hear your feedback and if you have questions please do give me a shout.
Sheila says
Thank you for your 10 things a day idea. This is a great way to start, I,ll let you know how it goes, ( now, if I can just stop buying yarn, it will make a big difference !!
Alice says
So hope it helps Sheila – am going to be sharing simple tips soon on getting on top of our hobby buying habits 🙂
Dawn christy says
I dislike the Marie kendo method personally aswell. I.prefer yours.. marue kindos is too perfectionist based we ate not perfect perfectionists ate we ..?! ..thanksfir your twn things to get rud if daily info !
Katie says
Love this post – 10 things definitely seems more manageable than surrounding myself with everything and going through it one by one! Off to find 10 things now!
Julie says
As a child I remember my mom persuading me and my sisters to clean our room by picking up 10 things. She made it into a game and even set a timer. It kind of stuck to me as an adult because that’s how I motivate myself to clear up at least 10 things.
Jessica says
SO MUCH more practical than KonMarie. I like to watch any declutter show, but her actual method seems totally unreasonable to me. KonMarie is the fad of the moment, but it will pass.
One thing to add – the importance of not bringing in more stuff as you slowly declutter!
Sabrina - The Budding Optimist says
I have this method where I set the alarm for 10 minutes and I tackle a particular area of the house and for 10 minutes I’ll grab whatever I don’t need or use anymore, with the goal of clearing away at least 10 things. This way I don’t feel the task is too overwhelming because I know it’s just for 10 minutes and having a time limit and a specific goal prevents me from thinking too many thoughts like “but I might use this later”. 10 minutes and 10 things at a time helped me clear away years of clutter without stressing myself out!
Isabella says
Actually I moved into my parents home after they both ended up in care. It was a nightmare but that nightmare included so many things that had been there my entire life. However the whole issue needed to be dealt with and it was completely overwhelming. I walked around the house every day for a max of 1/2 hour with one garbage bag for garbage and one for donate. Sometimes it was ten things and a full garbage bag. Didn’t matter. It took both bags out to my van for ‘disposal’. As I live in a very rural area and we don’t get charitable receipts for donated items an awful lot of ‘money’ went out that door. Before I put in my van I actually looked at those tied up bags I mentally judged how many square feet was in each bag. I wrote that number in a little notebook. It gave me a further sense of achievement although that sounds stupid it really helped me. I could see the improvement in the spaces I worked on but I could also ‘count’ the amount of room I gained each day. Just an FYI do not use those ‘see through’ garbage bags to do this. I had one or two occasions when I first started that I had my sister and my neice drop by and found them head first in bags ‘rescuing’ items. That also taught me to ‘run’ to my vehicle trunk the instant I completed my daily ‘purge’. This ‘habit’ ultimately worked wonders for me.
Alice says
Thanks so much for sharing Isabella – just like you I have found keeping a track super helpful, as even when I’d got a long way to go I could feel how much I’d achieved and that was massive motivation to keep going.
Karen Elliott says
Hello, I have just been reading yours and everyone’s tips and suggestions. May I ask, when you say 10 items, do you mean 1 item to be, for example, I ball of yarn or the entire amount as in around 4 sackfuls?,We moved to a smaller house and have an excessive amount of stuff!. I have chronic illness and believe I could do it in the small time slots. I also think I would feel lighter for it.
Thanks for the inspiration and permission to take as long as it will. I really am the tortoise in this race.
Alice says
Hi Karen – to be honest you can tweak it day by day to suit how you are feeling. Some days you may have the energy and be ready to treat a whole load of yarn as one thing sometimes one ball is absolutely OK as one item. Doing just 10 small items a day tortoise style really does add up – it can clear over 3,000 things a year which will make an enormous difference. And I really have found the more I do it the easier it becomes so there are days where in just 5 or 10 minutes I can clear a sackful. It really is OK to be the tortoise in this race – remember it is the tortoise who wins out in the end, best wishes Alice xxx
elaine174 says
I’ve decluttered the house and now it’s one thing in and one out and that’s working well.
My problem is paperwork – lots of updates for my business and then interesting newspaper cuttings to read or do and far too many recipes etc. This year I’ve started using books and binders in the hope of getting rid of the pile of bits of paper which are hard to keep track of. Then there’s the filing cabinet which is pretty full. Suggestions welcome but I do prefer pen and paper.
Ruth says
I recently was married and am trying to merge 2 very full households both 50 plus years worth. It is more than overwhelming. Trying to figure out what to keep and what to get rid of is by no means easy. We have put many bags in the garbage and taken many to our local mission. My problem is trying to clear out my home. I am a widow of almost 3 years and am having trouble clearing out my late husband’s office with all the files, all his personal items and clothing is upsetting and hard to do. Any/all suggestions are greatly appreciated.
Alice says
Thank you so much for reaching out Ruth. Letting go of our loved one’s things is so hard isn’t it? One approach that might help is to step back from all the stuff and just spend a little time reflecting on what’s really important to you and then to focus first on finding the important stuff. This could be financial or legal documents, i.e. stuff you have to keep and then those sentimental things you know are really valuable to you. Try to isolate those things without going through everything else. Once you’ve got those things you know are important all together it is then OK to walk away from everything else without going through it by letting someone else clear the lot. I know it’s a hard balance because slowly, gently going through our past can be a very valuable part of grieving. We just need to make sure it isn’t stopping us from living joyfully now. If you don’t feel you just can walk away it may help once you’ve quickly found the small amount of truly important stuff, to set a limit on how much time you spend going through things. And recognise that the time you’re spending now is just for giving you quiet space to grieve and that you absolutely don’t have to go through everything single to say farewell. I hope this helps in some way, Alice x
Mary Amelia says
I was late to the party in finding this post, but I had to let you know how much this idea of “just 10 things” has helped me. I have always struggled with just doing the dang thing—whatever it is, but especially decluttering. There’s always an excuse, but not for 10-15 and just 10 things. I am on Day 2, and I am already so energized to keep going! Thanks for this strategy to make DOING THE THING so simple and achievable. Revolutionary!
Alice says
I am so glad you’re finding it helpful. It really has made a massive difference in my life because it’s so easy to stick and all those little things really do add up. I find it helpful to visualise the one little area I am going to focus on each day. Or sometimes in busy periods to just take a few minutes on a Sunday or Monday and write down 7 tiny daily prompts so I don’t have to think about what to focus on I just do it. Do let me know how you get on and do shout if you need help. Best wishes Alice
LIZ says
Thank you, Alice. I’m 82, living in a small apartment with way too much clutter and uour idea of letting go of just 10 things a day lets me know I can actually do that. Other methods have just left me with a bigger mess, but I know your slow decluttering is manageable for me and will encourage me to keep going with it. I and my apartment are going to be much happier in the days to come.